I feel like you should be able tell me exactly what it was that I did because someone can be self aware and still not know exactly what made you upset or even understand why.
For instance if I did something and your vibe changes of course Imma notice the shift in energy but if you cant communicate and tell me what exactly it was I did or why to help me understand… How am I gonna be able to change and avoid the situation in the future?
We all out here trying. Sometimes it’s not as simple as being self aware. We’re humans.